overcoming perfectionism

Ok, so last time we were looking at radical self-honesty.  The power of being really honest with ourselves – and even being really honest with others about ourself.  Looking deep within and acknowledging, even sharing, those shady parts - releasing shame, learning acceptance and flourishing. But what do you think about radical honesty with others, at all times? Welcome to the world of Radical Honesty. So what is radical honesty? Radical honesty is just what it sounds [...]

Ok, let’s be honest. We lie to ourselves constantly…      “I don’t care what they think” (when you care loads)      “The job’s ok (it’s draining the life out of you)      “It’ll be different next week” (but it wasn’t this week – or the week before that..) Self-lies are a comfort blanket – they help us to feel safe.  And they’re sneaky – they’re “easy”, they’re non-controversial, they can slip under the radar because they [...]